These last few days have been very busy and with ups and downs !!!
Then, Dan’s grandpa got really sick and, unfortunately, he might pass at any time now. It is always hard dealing with a loss, but we want to focus on the long and prosperous life that he has lived. He would be turning 95 next week!!
Another sad thing that happened, that hit really close to home, was the fact that dan’s brother and his girlfriend, sadly, lost their baby, who was due to be born the same day as ours. I can’t even begin to imagine how hard the whole experience must have been, and I truly hope they can recover from it soon enough !
I got a little paranoid about losing our kid too. I don’t know. I guess just being due on the same day made me fear too. But, I have moved on from that feeling.
I just couldn’t wait any longer to find out if we are having a little boy or a little girl. So, I booked a gender determination 3D ultrasound appointment. Dan had to come back to town a bit earlier to see his grandpa, possibly, for the last time, so he was able to join us at the appointment.
So, there were me, Dan, Helena and my mom. We got there a bit early, and I started to ingest as much sugar as possible to make sure the baby would be moving during the session. Helena started crying when the lady started to scan my belly, I think she thought there was something wrong with me. But it wasn’t long until she could tell us that we are having a baby GIRL !!
I wish I had recorded Dan’s reaction. Dan, my mom, my dad and my aunt were extremely confident it was a boy. I thought it was another girl all along, but their conviction made me doubt my senses at times. Dan just threw himself back on the chair, looking up at the ceiling and going like “ohhhh”. He was in shock haha
I was so glad that I had kept every little thing we ever bought Helena. We will certainly be saving some money.
My mom said to Dan that maybe next time it will be a boy and we were both like NOOOO!! We love our babies, we love being parents, but 2 is all we can handle. We are glad our family will be complete soon.
One thing I find super interesting is that when we bought our house 3 years and a half ago, the family who owned this house had two girls. So, there was a girly yellow room and pink room. We never altered the rooms just in case we had a girl, or two, for that matter. And, in case, we had a boy, we would change the room as needed. So, we are saving money on room decor, too, as we already have a girly room for our second baby girl.
I know I am talking a lot about savings, but I can’t help it. This pregnancy, compared to the last one, has been so much cheaper haha Dan said he is probably having 2 girls because he is cheap haha
Regardless, we have always known that the gender doesn’t matter. What truly matters is that the baby is healthy!
I just can’t believe that in a week time I’ll be halfway this pregnancy. It is going by crazy fast.
And now, to the hardest part: picking a freaking name!! I hate this part, honestly. Dan and I always disagree, and I always wonder if our kid will hate the name we pick.
I have 5 names in mind. But there is one that really stands out. Dan is, currently, reflecting on it. I hope he agrees because I just can’t wait to call her by her name !!!